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Why do I keep scrolling long after I meant to stop?
You open your phone for one thing. An hour disappears.
Understand this patternWhy do I keep replaying an argument?
The conversation is over. Your mind keeps restarting it.
Understand this patternWhy am I worrying before anything has happened?
One uncertain possibility begins to feel like the likely outcome.
Understand this patternWhy do I keep comparing myself with other people?
Someone else’s progress quietly changes how yours feels.
Understand this patternWhy does stress send me towards sugar and snacks?
The harder the day gets, the more immediate relief matters.
Understand this patternWhy does the room go quiet when honesty matters?
The meeting invites candor, but rank and consequence are still present.
Understand this patternMore explanations
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